Women Organisations are Masters of Jugglery of Data & Stat. Every woman related thing is turned into a grave victimization story by twisting & tailoring of Data & Stat. It serves to create a chaos and sympathy waves which are used to flourish their foreign & govt. funding model through aroused emotions in the country & hatred against Men …
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IT REALLY NEED WELL INFORMED ABOUT THESE TACTICS TO BE UNTOUCHED BY THEIR PROPAGANDA & SWAYING GENERALIZATION
BEAUTIFUL WAY OF MAKING PUBLIC -IN -LARGE AWARE ABOUT MEN’s ISSUES(IrBM the Latest in list) by Hyderabad team :
The youth is a soul of any Nation. Nation’s prosperity & development is heavily dependent on the contribution of its Youth in nation building. There be no doubt about their strength, power and capability. The youth are filled with tremendous energy and towering ambitions. It needs no spark for ignition. Youth is so primitive that can be moulded in either shape one wants but surely, it is also the reason for the both exploitation and utilization of youth in the destruction and construction of any nation respectively.
India is second most populated country in the world and having tremendous youth power at its disposal but India, for long now, failed miserably to recognize and realize the true potential & capabilities of its huge youth asset.
The young people in India today are confused and is under great pressure from out of challenges it is facing from each & every corner of its life be it, corruption, un-employment, limited opportunities, dirty politics, poverty, Alcoholism & drugs, anger & violence etc etc. these factors are playing big role in India’s major concern of brain drain. These factors are so deep rooted and complex that to overcome them seems impossible for the country like India.
However, one another major factor where India has “Axed its own Feet” and can easily be overcome is enforcement of gender biased laws.
Generally, every person marries in his prime age (youth) and in case of any trouble in marriage with gender biased matrimonial laws in place, these laws encourage the favoured side to be an unscrupulous litigant and the young energy & potential gets diverted to engaging and coming out of this Mess flying colours.
A young Wife with an advantage of having matrimonial laws in her undue favour and in pursuit to be perceived as empowered women puts all her energy & potential to use these laws as tools of harassment & extortion against her husband & his family members. She leaves no stone unturned to inflict every kind of cruelty on her husband and becomes revengeful with motive of teaching him a good lesson.
Whereas, on the other hand, a young husband finds himself in a hot soup for atleast 10-15 years just because of gender biased matrimonial laws. He is forced to spend his golden years in fighting legal & vicious battle draining all his energy & potential.
Why this is a major factor of waste of young energy?
Because, Gender Biased Matrimonial Laws have each and every family/home in its range and these biased laws are hitting the very root of our society i.e. family. Our young minds, energy and vibrant potential are being eaten up by these laws. The Young minds of India are busy in fighting the battle of their life because of these numerous gender biased laws.
Now, in this scenario, how can India be hopeful of being progressive ?
” A serious thought is needed at the level of Government with enough of political will to at least scrap the biasedness in matrimonial laws so as to save & utilize the what little of huge youth power it can to make India a progressive nation.”
“EQUAL RIGHTS TO ALL – a mark of CIVILIZED SOCIETY”
From many decades, there is continues hue & cry for equal rights from women organisations(mainly for Wives) but without going into the veracity of their claims, let us first give a thought to following facts:-
On the one hand, the responsibilities or duties of a husband in society is still remained intact what it was in age-old society i.e. feeding, caring, protecting and raising his family and which are enforced though special matrimonial biased laws.
While, on the other hand, wife, is legally made free from any kind of responsibilities or duties of matrimony or family and are enjoying one-sided full rights to dictate her terms or break the family or marriage without any penalty.
This becomes more clear when we analyze the present scenario of Indian society from an unbiased logical mind that:-
The so called women empowerment has ensured(socially as well as legally) equal rights to earn and opportunities to women.
There are many women up liftment policies and programmes like, free education, award schemes for female Child, support for training & employment, Stree Shakti Programme, gender budgeting, short stay shelters, women’s right in paternal property, reservation in political sphere(panchayats, vidhan sabha, etc.)
The government and media always remain keen to bring to forefront any trivial cause of women so as to garner votes and viewers.
Government is getting enough of free funding in the name of women empowerment from foreign countries and is spending overwhelmingly for so many years for these activities.
The solution to bring about equality in the wisdom of government & feminists is to frame and enforce more & more gender biased laws.
Whereas, the earning avenues for Males(from where he will be able to discharge all the legal responsibility attributed to him) which were earlier mainly available to him, is now depleted to say 50% and is being shared 50-50 or even more by females (this all, while the population growth is ever increasing). Hence, broadly speaking, it resulted in less than 50% earning avenues left with Males.
So in this present scenario, Why only male is still made responsible for maintaining his family ?
More so, on a level playing ground, in today’s context, a Marriage is a contract between two individuals to discharge equal responsibilities and avail equal rights to make a successful family, however, the same should also be true in case of a failed marriage(without going into the reasons Why?).
But in India, failed marriage is made sole liability of Male , Why?
He has to pay maintenance, ligation expenses, residence etc. during dispute or alimony after divorce Why?
When the said marriage is broken and both are not discharging their responsibilities of that matrimony, why only husband is penalized ?
and in case of any child from this matrimony,
why not responsibility of welfare of child is shared on 50:50 basis ?
To these very questions, the reasoning or big answer from feminists or government is to stop women being destitute or beggared but it could not be understood then what for women centric welfare policies, programmes, schemes involving huge funding are there ?
So, isn’t it rational that either Government should scrap all women upliftment (so called women empowerment,) programmems if these not bearing the desired fruits or it should make women legally, equal responsible at par with Males in the family affairs and matrimonial matters alongwith similar parallel statutory constitutional bodies for male rights too?
A Man for centuries is an easy target to criticize & blame and is bearing the heat of criticism and brand labeling as a predator, ignoring the very fact that it is MAN who has :
Strived hard since the stone age to meet hunger, luxury, protection and social standing of his family, thereby a society, a nation & the world.
Run the world and always have; men are smarter, stronger, and more aggressive than women; feminists could never have got anything they wanted if men hadn’t permitted them to have it.
Made the life outside home easy by investing both physically as un-tired labour and intellectually as technology. Before invention of many machines & tools, a lot of work required more muscle power than women have; their engaging in it was impossible before men made it easier.
The MEN besides playing a successful role of caretaker for his family has gifted this world with all kind of amenities alongwith honor and dignity out of his own sweat and un-tiring energy.The Man has sacrificed his life for protection and honor of his family for centuries.
The Man has never done anything exclusively for himself or for his individual development or ease but has done everything for whole of the society & world.
Surprisingly, now when outside world is made so easy to be in, by MAN, the unscrupulous identities called “Feminists” started crying women rights, equality, deprivation etc. etc. Why not this hue & cry was there, when livelihood or survival was hard and manual fatigue and great endurance was involved in every single action outside ?
More ironically, theses feminists want to achieve their so called equality, empowerment etc. by blaming everything on the very MAN who has relentlessly strived hard for whole society in general.
Even today, the poor MAN is so deeply involved in fulfilling his old traditional duties and responsibilities that HE knowingly, but due to ages old cultivated sense of being provider & protector is ignoring the very fact that the time has come when he need to join hands and come together to fight against these feminists and the governments run by them who are misleading the world for their ulterior motives and are proving fatal to the family & society for which he is striving so hard.
It is the call of day that the Men being PROTECTOR & PROVIDER, raise his voice loud & clear that IT IS I WHO HAD MADE THIS WORLD LIVABLE & ORDERLY by putting in immense Labour & hardship and I WILL NOT ALLOW TO DISCARD OR RUIN MY EFFORTS & LOBOUR on the WHIMS & FANCIES OF FEMINISTS.
COME & FIGHT FOR MEN’s RIGHTS !
Complete Bankruptcy of Legal & Judicious Wisdom and analysis:
By drafting IrBM, which would make “WIFE” (and only wife) entitled to 50% share in all kind of immovable and movable earnings, properties including ancestral property, assets etc. of her husband in the event of divorce is glaring example to show the bankruptcy of legal & judicious wisdom of Indian law making system. The Law ministry while recommending these amendments have totally overlooked/forget the following basic fundamental facts :-
That All matrimonial laws in India are Gender Biased(against husband).
That India survives on it’s robust and one of it’s kind “the Family System”.
That Marriage in India is a sacred ritual & contract and when monetary angle comes in(like dowry-to which government recognizes it as “Menace”) the institution of marriage breaks down be it from any side.
That Divorce is a “Failed Marriage” and failed marriage is not a “Crime”.
That Woman does not mean “Only Wife” in whole of the world.
That the mother, sister, aunt etc. in the family of husband are Women and has their BIRTH RIGHTS in ancestral or joint property besides all other male members of the family.
That to be a Husband in INDIA is not an act of violating the “will of humanity”.
That the “Husband” and only husband cannot be used as tool in the name of rights to woman on account of government’s own failures like for failed protection & security, dignity, respect, livelihood, financial health, assets, assaults, health, eprivation, employment & poverty etc.
That the legislation is drafted by none other than the persons who are “non-practising law” or even typical Indian Babus who had no analysis of practical implications of this legislation outside the comfortable “AC Rooms” of offices of Ministry.
That a Contested Divorce – a decree in favour of wife/husband only after completing legal and judicial process wherein wrong doing party is legally proved then firstly, why to “incentivize” the wrong doing person in the name of subsistence to live………. and again now through this proposal to have 50% share in hard earned properties and assets over the years by not only husband but by his forefathers too….?
That Proposed amendments are nothing but a lucrative legal business model to be wealthy without any risk or responsibility for unscrupulous wives.
That these provisions would be responsible for steep raise in the graph of divorce cases in India out of lust for wealth and will solicit and promote squandering and splattering on the part of woman.
That votes in 2014 election could not be garnered through another such a terrible skewed legislation which will shake the very root of Family System in India.
THERE IS STILL TIME TO THINK AND USE YOUR VALUABLE WISDOM……………..RISE ABOVE THE “VOTE BANK POLITICS” ……… IT CAN BACK FIRE !!!!!!!!!
THE MARRIAGE is an institution having only 2 pillars of it i.e HUSBAND and WIFE.The Indian Legal system has very much clearly defined the husband’s role,duties & responsibilities in a matrimony through various gender biased laws. It’s my little effort to summarise the same for your perusal:
HUSBAND (Legally in India)
a) a male above 21 years of age In Marriage
b) Legally barred to take any dowry before, at the time or after the marriage.
c) Legally responsible to maintain his wife & children economically, pschycologically,socially, physically and emotionally.
d) Legally bound to provide protection to wife & children
e) Legally bound to provide residence & life style of his status to wife .
f) Legally barred to do any crulaity on wife or children
g) Leaglly barred of any domestic violence on wife.
h) Legally bound to make his wife happy biologically(sex).
i) Legally barred of any adultary inside or outside marriage.
j) Legally barred from marital rape.
k) Legally responsible to maintain his parents as well.
l) Legally responsible for any unantural death of his wife within 7 years of marriage. even after Divorce
m) Legally responsible to provide ailimony for easy life of his ex.till her remaining life or she remarries.
n) Legally responsible to provide maintenance to his children till they attain maturity age or in case of girl, her marriage.
WIFE (Legally in India)
and now let’s talk about Wife’s responsibilities or role ? Is it defined anywhere in any law or act ? NO The only thing defined (in nutshell) about wife is “Any girl/women above 18 years, legally married to a Man” that’s all. So WHO IS WIFE ?
Is this institution of marriage in India is any way FAIR to a HUSBAND ?
Don’t you agree that every indian matrimonial laws needs clear defination of the “Wife” i.e WHO IS WIFE ? WHAT IS THE ROLE of WIFE IN A MATRIMONY? and WHAT ARE THE RESPOSIBILITIES OR DUTIES OF WIFE ?
Isn’t it must, so that the abundance of rights bestowed to a WIFE in Indian Legal System, in the name of women Empowerment could be JUSTIFIED ANYHOW ?