Posts Tagged ‘Man’

Undermining MAN – the BIGGEST IGNORANCE

May 27, 2013
A Man for centuries is an easy target  to criticize & blame and is   bearing the heat of criticism and brand labeling as a predator, ignoring the  very fact that it is MAN who has :

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  • Strived hard since the stone age  to meet hunger, luxury, protection and social standing of  his family, thereby a society, a nation & the world.
  • Run the world and always have; men are smarter, stronger, and more aggressive than women; feminists could never have got anything they wanted if men hadn’t permitted them to have it.
  • Made the life outside home easy by investing both physically as un-tired labour and intellectually as technology. Before invention of many machines & tools, a lot of work required more muscle power than women have; their engaging in it was impossible before men made it easier.
  • The MEN besides playing a successful role of caretaker for his family has gifted this world with all kind of  amenities alongwith honor and dignity out of his own sweat and un-tiring energy.The Man has sacrificed his life for protection and honor of his family for centuries.
  • The Man has never done anything exclusively for himself or for his individual development or ease but has done everything for whole of the society & world.
  • Surprisingly, now when outside world is made so easy to be in, by MAN, the unscrupulous identities called “Feminists” started crying women rights, equality, deprivation etc. etc. Why not this hue & cry was there, when  livelihood or survival  was hard and manual fatigue and great endurance was involved in every single action outside ?

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  • More ironically, theses feminists  want to achieve their so called equality, empowerment etc. by blaming everything on the very MAN who has relentlessly strived hard for whole society in general.
  • Even today, the poor MAN is so deeply involved in fulfilling his old traditional duties and responsibilities that HE knowingly, but due to ages old cultivated sense of being provider & protector is ignoring the very fact that the time has come when he need to join hands and come together to fight against these feminists and the governments run by them who are misleading the world for their ulterior motives and are proving fatal to the family & society for which he is striving so hard.

It is the call of day that the Men being PROTECTOR & PROVIDER, raise his voice loud & clear that IT IS I WHO HAD  MADE THIS WORLD LIVABLE & ORDERLY by  putting in immense Labour & hardship and I WILL NOT ALLOW TO DISCARD OR RUIN MY EFFORTS & LOBOUR on the WHIMS & FANCIES OF FEMINISTS.

COME  & FIGHT FOR MEN’s RIGHTS !

EVOLUTION AND GROWTH OF “MAN” KIND ………..………THE TRUTH IN BRIEF !!!

May 4, 2013

Stone age

In order to  establish human race / mankind  on this earth “ALMIGHTY  GOD” made MAN & WOMAN with capability of producing their offsprings to continue their race on this planet. “GOD” gave special traits(physical, mental  & social) to both but in the quantum “HE” thought justified. “MAN” was bestowed with comparatively strong physiology by “HIM”, so  he chose the role of Protector & Bread Earner by striving  hard in jungles, naked and empty handed. He made tools & weapons from stone and wood for hunting the wild animals which were much bigger in his size and strength  and started bringing in food daily to fulfil the tummy of his woman and offsprings. Women being bestowed with abundance of true womanhood & motherhood by “HIM” chose the role of a Home Maker(child care, cooking, etc. ).
Time went on & on with these specific roles and both were happy. Slowly-2 they built a strong social institution with rules and regulations specific to their respective roles. With this social institution they started helping each other in their respective roles  too but as much as they can.
Soon, Man started feeling the need of advanced tools and weapons for facilitating his role of Bread Earner & Protector alongwith other needs of civilization, so he started inventing new advanced tools and weapons coupled with new inventions for mobility, security, health, communication, etc. etc.  
These inventions started showing results and it slowly-2  made the  life easy for everyone be it MAN, Woman or children. When the bread earning and life in general  became comparatively much & much  easy and sophisticated, suddenly, few words “RIGHTS”,”EMPOWERMENT” & “EQUALITY” started creep on in the minds of some of women who were lured by the role of Man and they claimed the title “Feminists” fighting for so called “Feminism”.
They pursued their movement vigoursly  on false propaganda of being  weaker sex, deprived of rights and downtrodden by “MAN” for centuries this all after knowing very well that the Black Sheeps exists everywhere.  This emotional & flimsy propaganda from them made more & more population confused so as to believe that the traits & qualities gifted by none other than  “ALMIGHTY” and the roles  chosen by Man & woman of their own WILL at the start of civilization is heavily tilted on one side i.e. on the side of Man.  

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This Propaganda from “Feminists”(now comprising of many brain washed men too) is still on and is succeeding in dividing the world on the basis of gender. They are penalizing today’s “MAN” in every possible way, be it legally, financially or socially  whereas, today’s domesticated “MAN” is still have no time outside his role of protector & bread earner or is in dilemma of “I AM THE PROTECTOR AND BREAD EARNER TO ONLY MY FAMILY” and  “I HAVE DONE NOTHING SO THIS CAN’T HAPPEN TO ME”

 The Life is going on and will continue to do so…………………. BUT WAKEUP and  RISE as the next  “MAN”  can be you !!!!!!!!!

Saving the Family/Marriage – an uphill task for Indian Men

July 7, 2010

Since the beginning of civilization, a Family, the smallest & fundamental social unit of society is serving the purpose of primary training ground for nurturing physiological, emotional, social and psychological  needs/strengths of an individual irrespective of his/her gender. As Family is a strongest pillar of a society & civilization, it needs strong bonds of ethics, values & morals to remain intact and meaningful. More so, because wherever, a group of people resides together some collision in thoughts and life style bounds to happen. Therefore, family values are important and should be cherished and nurtured. Love, support, friendship, and guidance are key qualities necessary to form a strong family bond. The nation/ society having strong family system can easily absorb any external or internal trouble/threats and it icons a true vibrant society.

             India was once known for it’s very strong Joint Family System, so practiced since from ancient times and strongly interwoven by ethics & values. The family was headed by an oldest person mainly Man ( however, in some parts of India by Female) who was having responsibility as well as authority to safeguard purpose and the key qualities of family bond alongwith passing on the ethics & values over to next generations. But the in-roads (in the name of so called development) of western culture, media, equality, rights, empowerment etc. in the society has shattered this concept of Indian joint family and the nuclear family system prevailed.  

The main supporter of nuclear families is young Women of today, as today’s 99% young women are only willing to have a nuclear family on the pretext of burden of household work, harassment, ill-treatment etc. in joint family but the truth is, it gives them an unrestricted freedom of their choice beyond any ethics, values and responsibilities. The mind of these young women is more influenced by the feminists propaganda than their own grand mothers and other old females in their family. This change in mindset of young women and the added fuel to this thinking by the Government and other feminist pressure groups in the name of empowerment and equality to women coupled with enforcing of gender biased laws is the main reason of breaking of families and joint family system in India.

However, in nuclear family system too, the responsibility to keep family intact solely lies on Man only, besides his legal commitment of fulfillment of all other needs of the family. So, marriage has became a double edged sword for Men in India and Men faces a tricky situation, firstly, if he chooses a nuclear family under pressure from his wife, he is accused of leaving his parents & kin and carries this guilt for life, besides this, it gives undue elevation to the unscrupulous wife’s moral to dictate her terms and ill designs. Further, wife once successful in separating her husband from his parents and breaking the in-law’s family doesn’t stop there but instead encouraged with her this achievement she continue to adapt this strategy to make her husband to bow to her any unlawful demand(monetary, personal or social) in future. Under the threat of legal tools especially designed for her by Indian Government, husband has to obey her because the legal impunity granted to wife in India is very much clear from what even the Apex legal authority i.e. Hon’ble Supreme Court of India has reiterated to the husbands of this country time and again that “Move left if your wife says so or move to right if she desire so”.

Secondly, if he doesn’t leave his parents (because he is the one who lived with them for 25-30 years and very well know their habits & nature and is the best judge among both parents & wife), his life can be made hell easily by his empowered and legally strengthened wife, who with motives to take revenge, to secure her future and to extort money from him not only tries to teach lesson to him but to many others in his family by implicating them in various false criminal cases like dowry, domestic violence etc. which are so gender biased that they can be set into motion merely on her complaint.

In this scenario and ever increasing lust for money and power in Indian society, it becomes impossible to strengthen the bonds of ethics & values in family and the key qualities necessary to form a strong family like love, support, friendship, and guidance looks a distant dream. But strangely & ironically, everybody(judiciary, society or Government) still expects from Man, who is already in such a hot soup with social as well as legal adversities all around to save family/marriage. The Man is panelized economically, emotionally, physically and socially for any failure of marriage/family as he is the one who is supposed to and is legally made responsible to save the family / marriage. Nobody be it society, Government, judiciary or police is giving any heed to his problems/pressures but continues to pamper women on the age-old beliefs & myths. So, the big question remains in front of him is  How to save family (may be joint or nuclear) or marriage ?  All the wild blames are directed towards him but his endless sufferings goes-by unnoticed. Moreover, in this bad situation, he is being alienated more & more by gender biased laws and the only solution that emerges for Man is to say NO to marriage itself. Is this what the society, Government or feminists want ?

RIGHTS WITHOUT RESPONSIBILTIES

July 3, 2010

It’s a well known principle  thatRights don’t exist without Responsibilities”.

 How ironical is this in Indian Scenario?

 In India

 The moment a woman marries, it becomes immaterial whether she has discharged any matrimonial responsibilities or not but Indian legal system  automatically bestows her with the Rights :

  •  To implicate any near & dear to her in-laws including her husband in criminal or civil cases.
  • To legally extort or threaten the in-laws to bow down to her wishes.
  • To have full satisfaction of her biological need(Sex)
  • To have all types of protections against domestic violence viz. emotional, verbal, financial, physical, psychological etc.
  • To have maintenance from husband to never feel like loosing anything.
  • To fight legal battle in courts against her husband with his money itself.
  • To deprive the Child Custody to husband while raising her children on his money itself.
  • To have Alimony for rest of her life so that he cannot forget her.

 Now let us talk about the Man

 The moment a man marries in India he is automatically burdened with the Responsibilities & Duties for life :

  • Providing safe environment to wife where nobody could ask a question to her on her matrimonial responsibilities.
  •  Providing full satisfaction to his wife of her biological need(Sex).
  •  Providing full monetary, physical, emotional, social support to wife and children. 
  • Providing all types of Protection against domestic violence viz. emotional, economical, verbal, physical, psychological, social etc. to his wife & children. 
  • Providing Maintenance to his wife & children including the money to them to fight cases against himself. in addition to provide maintenance to his own parents & family. 
  • Providing maintenance for every need of his children but can’t have custody of children. 
  • Providing Alimony for life to wife & children for their bright future.

 So as per above. Man is made to keep on discharging his responsibilities during and even after breaking up of marriage, on the other side, woman is completely free of any responsibilities (during or after)but enjoys full rights even after breaking up of marriage( when she is definitely not discharging any matrimonial responsibilities in connection with this marriage )

 Why this discrimination among genders?

 The Great Indian Rationale

In Indian belief the Marriage is a Sacred Institution and “is a Union of Two Souls into One”. It seems that giving this spirit of Indian marriage prime importance, the government and lawmakers in India is trying to maintain the Rights & Responsibilities connection intact in matrimonial matters in different way. Considering wife & husband as a single soul, they have intrinsically distributed the Rights & Responsibilities among them. In this process, they have enacted and enforced many gender biased laws and has converted the institution of marriage into a biased Corporate where one spouse has been given only Rights without Responsibilities and the other spouse is burdened with only Responsibilities & Duties without any Rights for life.

 Do you think, this way the spirit of Indian Marriage can be kept alive?