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Feminists, the Myths perpetuated by them and their destiny in India

July 19, 2010

How rational is the unfair treatment of Men on the basis of various prejudices like India is a male dominating society, woman is a weaker sex, women is oppressed by Men for centuries and that Man cannot be a victim?

With more than billion people, the Republic of India is the world’s largest democracy. The Democracy – is accepted world wide as best model of governance with equality and freedom have been identified as it’s important characteristics since ancient times. These principles are reflected in all citizens being equal before the law and having equal access to power. India’s population is nearly four times that of the United States.

There was a time when the role of women in India was confined to home & household work only but with decades of sole thrust on women empowerment, the women in today’s India enjoying equal rights and opportunities in each and every field and in modern India, women have adorned high offices in India including that of the President, Prime minister, Speaker of the Lok Sabha, Chief Minister etc. Women in India now participate in all activities such as education, politics, sports, media, art & culture, service sectors, science and technology, etc and turns out glorious. Indira Gandhi, who served as Prime Minister of India for an aggregate period of fifteen years is the world’s longest serving woman Prime Minister. So, today’s Women of India especially Urban India can not be in any way assumed to be underprivileged in any sense, be it education, social, political, economical, workforce etc., instead, this section of women is mainly responsible for tarnishing the image of women in society by mis-use of women centric laws.

Under the mask of being feminist these are urban women who for the sake of money, power & ulterior motives keep on re-iterating & perpetuating the myths that :

a)            India is a male dominating society.

There is nothing special done or legally enacted for Men ever, however, on the other side Women has  over the decades special legislations for women, upliftment schemes, monetary & social support, reservation etc. and even then if one believes India is a male dominating society then that male really deserves to be dominating.

 b)           Woman is a weaker sex

Woman is not a weaker sex but the mind that thinks so is weak.  

 c)            Women is oppressed by Men for centuries

The wisdom of punishing present generation for the deeds of their fore- generations is beyond the scope of any rational & logical reasoning.

 d)           Man cannot be a victim

Man is not a superhuman. Today’s empowered women and various gender biased laws enforced in her favour is a deadly combination to turn Man into a victim.

  It’s the propaganda, hue & cry by the feminists that have kept these myths still alive in India and even after having the drastic change in the status of women in India (where Kalpana Chawla and Sunita Williams visited space), these urban feminists are still not ready to leave these myths as they treat these myths as “golden words’ for them to justify any irrational and illogical argument of theirs. They are well aware that till the time they are successful in perpetuating these myths in the minds of Indians they can justify any gender biased legislation or undue favour for women.

Beating the same old drums for decades with negating any positive change in the status of Indian women surely reflects the bankruptcy of issues with feminists & their unwanted existence alongwith their conservative and regressive thinking. Surely, feminists in India are left with only negative mindset about any progressive gender issues which usually got projected very well now a days in any discussion, debate, meeting or statements in which they participate and uses these myths for their skin saving. Realizing the importance of diminishing womanhood by the negative activism of these feminists, even women of India  now shirks linking their cause with these feminists and the day is not far when these feminists will be forced to return to their cocoons by Indian society.

“WOMEN EMPOWERMENT” at the cost of “WOMANHOOD” – NOT ACCEPTABLE

May 5, 2010

The nature(GOD) has made man & woman mutually interdependent on each other to be  complete as a being “A Human”. Man as well as woman was blessed with equally important & different physiology & roles to play in His created world and to strike a balance in His creation He blessed both with different qualities and strengths.

He given Role of mother to woman while a role of father to man by bestowing true womanhood qualities like endurance, nurturing, elegance, poise, sharing, forbearance, loving & caring to woman while rational thinking, toughness, compassion, justice  & stableness   to man. 

"THE WOMANHOOD"

Mother’s these divine qualities shapes the emotional and internal strengths of a child while father’s qualities builds his capabilities of being successful in practical world. Both male & female were happily playing their respective roles in making of a family and society thereof since the evolution of human race on this planet earth.

But then & quite recently, some women(radical feminists) by forming groups out of

  • genuine atrocities on some women
  • boredom from their roles
  • shirk from their responsibilities
  • lured by freedom in outside world and power of money

has came with the slogan of “Women Empowerment” with justification that the women are under privileged or oppressed of their equal rights in society from ancient times and many atrocities are carried out on women on pretext of weaker sex.

The solution that this concept of Woman Empowerment has put forward initially was “to give woman equal rights i.e. at par with man in the sphere of activity which was otherwise in the domain of male i.e. earn the bread for family or self ” but it isn’t stop here, instead, ignoring & forgetting about the roles/qualities entrusted by the nature (GOD), they keep on pushing it ahead and now they have turned it into a mad race of equality with man in each & every sphere of activity i.e. whatsoever man can do, woman has equal right of doing it except for delivering a child  which is again constrained by nature only.

As remedy to enforce these rights they managed to persuade the government(who had their own vested interest of votebank etc,) to frame & enforce gender biased laws to settle family and matrimonial issues one sidedly  alongwith declaring woman as a special oppressed category for centuries which needs reservation for upliftment. Though, they achieved this success only by exploiting the male sentiments(in government as well as in society) towards female as he being given birth by a female(mother) and his brought up companion (sister) is a female but the irony in enforcing these gender biased laws is that these law are only meant for woman’s one role in society i.e  only Wife.

 However, larger question remains, what has been achieved by this kind of Women Empowerment or mad race ?

  • Women is loosing her existence, means, the  “essence” of womanhood in the physical, mental, intellectual and the spiritual sense and is depriving of the divine qualities gifted by nature to her in the name of empowerment of women and is turning into a human robots functional with gender biased laws & reservation.
  • The gender balance that was earlier maintained by nature has been made to tilt in favor of women(a special role of wife) which in turns resulting in misuse of this empowerment and creating a social chaos in society.
  • Social fabric woven with relationship and responsibilities of male & female and strengthen with family system is at the brink of completely broken.
  • The sacred institution of marriage has been turned into a gender battlefield with unwanted role of police, judiciary and political interfance

So called Empowered Woman

So, Is today’s Women Empowerment really is an Empowerment of  Women or on the contrary, is killing the divine womanhood ?

            Definitely it cannot be called an empowerment of a women but is responsible for making the society, a society without ethics & values and family, a family without divine qualities of loving caring & sharing and the womanhood is silently suffering at the hands of this pseudo empowerment .

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MESSAGE

A TRUE WOMEN EMPOWERMENT would be if the genuine and fair efforts are made to highlight and limelight the importance of divine qualities gifted by nature(GOD) to woman so as to raise the stature of womanhood so high in the society that the MAN & society is compelled to bow to her benevolent qualities and capabilities with significant importance to their role in every walk of life like family, society or mankind.