Posts Tagged ‘family’

Equal Rights in Matrimony…….

May 28, 2013

“EQUAL RIGHTS TO ALL – a mark of  CIVILIZED SOCIETY”

From many decades, there is continues hue & cry for equal rights  from women organisations(mainly for Wives)  but without going into the veracity of their claims, let us first give a thought to following facts:-

On the one hand, the responsibilities or duties of a husband in society is still remained intact what it was in age-old society  i.e. feeding, caring, protecting and raising his family and which are enforced though special matrimonial biased laws.

 While, on the other hand, wife, is legally made free from any kind of responsibilities or duties of matrimony or family and are enjoying one-sided full rights to dictate her terms or break the family or marriage without any penalty.

This becomes more clear when we analyze the present scenario of Indian society from an unbiased logical mind that:-

  • The so called women empowerment has ensured(socially as well as legally) equal rights to earn and opportunities to women.

  • There are  many women up liftment policies and programmes like, free education, award schemes for female Child, support for training & employment, Stree Shakti Programme, gender budgeting, short stay shelters, women’s right in paternal property, reservation in political sphere(panchayats, vidhan sabha, etc.)

  • The government and media always remain keen to bring to forefront any trivial cause of women so as to garner votes and viewers.

  • Government is getting enough of free funding in the name of women empowerment from foreign countries and  is spending overwhelmingly for so many years for these activities.

  • The solution to bring about equality in the wisdom of government & feminists is to frame and enforce more & more gender biased laws.

Whereas, the earning avenues for Males(from where he will be able to discharge all the legal  responsibility attributed to him) which were earlier mainly available to him, is now depleted to say 50% and is being shared 50-50 or even more by females (this all, while the population growth is ever increasing). Hence, broadly speaking,  it resulted in less than 50% earning avenues left with Males.

So in this present scenario, Why only male is still made responsible for maintaining his family ?

More so, on a level playing ground, in today’s context, a Marriage is a contract between two individuals to discharge equal responsibilities and avail equal rights to make a successful family, however, the same should also be true in case of a failed marriage(without going into the reasons Why?).

But in India, failed marriage is made sole liability of Male , Why?

  • He has to pay maintenance, ligation expenses, residence etc. during dispute or alimony after divorce Why?

  • When the said marriage is broken and both are not discharging their responsibilities of that matrimony, why only husband is penalized ?

and in case of any child from this matrimony,

  • why not  responsibility of welfare of child is shared on 50:50 basis ?

To these very questions, the reasoning or big answer from feminists or government is to stop women being destitute or beggared but it could not be understood then what for women centric welfare policies, programmes, schemes involving huge funding are there ?

So, isn’t it rational that either Government should scrap all women upliftment (so called women empowerment,) programmems if these not bearing the desired fruits or it should make women legally, equal responsible at par with Males in the family affairs and matrimonial matters alongwith similar parallel statutory constitutional bodies for male rights too?

Undermining MAN – the BIGGEST IGNORANCE

May 27, 2013
A Man for centuries is an easy target  to criticize & blame and is   bearing the heat of criticism and brand labeling as a predator, ignoring the  very fact that it is MAN who has :

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  • Strived hard since the stone age  to meet hunger, luxury, protection and social standing of  his family, thereby a society, a nation & the world.
  • Run the world and always have; men are smarter, stronger, and more aggressive than women; feminists could never have got anything they wanted if men hadn’t permitted them to have it.
  • Made the life outside home easy by investing both physically as un-tired labour and intellectually as technology. Before invention of many machines & tools, a lot of work required more muscle power than women have; their engaging in it was impossible before men made it easier.
  • The MEN besides playing a successful role of caretaker for his family has gifted this world with all kind of  amenities alongwith honor and dignity out of his own sweat and un-tiring energy.The Man has sacrificed his life for protection and honor of his family for centuries.
  • The Man has never done anything exclusively for himself or for his individual development or ease but has done everything for whole of the society & world.
  • Surprisingly, now when outside world is made so easy to be in, by MAN, the unscrupulous identities called “Feminists” started crying women rights, equality, deprivation etc. etc. Why not this hue & cry was there, when  livelihood or survival  was hard and manual fatigue and great endurance was involved in every single action outside ?

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  • More ironically, theses feminists  want to achieve their so called equality, empowerment etc. by blaming everything on the very MAN who has relentlessly strived hard for whole society in general.
  • Even today, the poor MAN is so deeply involved in fulfilling his old traditional duties and responsibilities that HE knowingly, but due to ages old cultivated sense of being provider & protector is ignoring the very fact that the time has come when he need to join hands and come together to fight against these feminists and the governments run by them who are misleading the world for their ulterior motives and are proving fatal to the family & society for which he is striving so hard.

It is the call of day that the Men being PROTECTOR & PROVIDER, raise his voice loud & clear that IT IS I WHO HAD  MADE THIS WORLD LIVABLE & ORDERLY by  putting in immense Labour & hardship and I WILL NOT ALLOW TO DISCARD OR RUIN MY EFFORTS & LOBOUR on the WHIMS & FANCIES OF FEMINISTS.

COME  & FIGHT FOR MEN’s RIGHTS !