Posts Tagged ‘divorce’

HOW FAIR IS IrBM(Marriage Act amendment) ???

May 7, 2013

IrBM

Please RISE & ACT against these Feminist visionaries.

and

SAVE  FAMILIES IN INDIA  !!!!

Proposed IrBM amendments to Marriage Act – A MIRROR INTO THE WISDOM OF INDIA’S TOP – LAW MINISTRY

May 2, 2013

Complete Bankruptcy of Legal & Judicious Wisdom and  analysis: 

Indian route to Business Model

Indian route to Business Model

By drafting IrBM, which would make “WIFE” (and only wife) entitled to 50% share in all kind of immovable and movable earnings, properties including ancestral property, assets  etc. of her husband in the event of divorce is glaring example to show the bankruptcy of legal & judicious wisdom of Indian law making system. The Law ministry while recommending these amendments have totally overlooked/forget the following basic fundamental facts  :-

  • That  All matrimonial laws in India are Gender Biased(against husband).
  • That  India survives on it’s robust and one of it’s kind “the Family System”.
  • That Marriage in India is a sacred ritual & contract and when monetary      angle comes in(like dowry-to which government recognizes  it as “Menace”) the institution of  marriage breaks down be it from any side.
  • That Divorce is a “Failed Marriage” and failed marriage is not a “Crime”.
  • That Woman does not mean “Only Wife” in whole of the world.
  • That the mother, sister, aunt etc. in the family of husband are Women and has   their  BIRTH RIGHTS in ancestral or  joint property besides all other male members of the family.
  • That to be a Husband in INDIA is not an  act of violating the “will of humanity”.
  • That  the  “Husband” and only husband cannot      be used as tool  in the name of  rights to woman  on account of government’s own  failures like for failed protection  & security, dignity, respect,  livelihood, financial health, assets, assaults, health,   eprivation, employment  &  poverty etc.
  • That  the legislation is drafted by none other than the persons who are      “non-practising law” or even typical Indian Babus who had no analysis of practical   implications of this legislation outside the comfortable  “AC Rooms” of offices of Ministry.
  • That a Contested Divorce – a decree in favour of wife/husband only after      completing legal and judicial process wherein wrong doing party is legally      proved then firstly, why to “incentivize” the wrong doing person in the      name of subsistence to live………. and again now  through this proposal to have 50% share      in hard earned properties and assets over the years by not only husband   but by his forefathers too….?
  • That Proposed amendments are nothing but a lucrative legal business model to be  wealthy without any risk or responsibility for unscrupulous wives.
  • That   these provisions would be responsible for steep raise in the graph of      divorce cases in India out of lust for wealth and will solicit and promote      squandering and splattering on the part of woman.
  • That votes in 2014 election could not be garnered through another such a      terrible skewed legislation which will shake the very root of Family System      in India.

 THERE IS STILL TIME TO THINK AND USE YOUR VALUABLE WISDOM……………..RISE ABOVE THE “VOTE BANK POLITICS” ……… IT CAN BACK FIRE !!!!!!!!!

By -the-Way, WHO IS WIFE IN A MATRIMONY ?

December 5, 2010

THE MARRIAGE is an institution having only 2 pillars of it i.e HUSBAND and WIFE.The Indian Legal system has very much clearly defined the husband’s role,duties & responsibilities in a matrimony through various gender biased laws. It’s my little effort to summarise the same for your perusal:

HUSBAND (Legally in India)

a) a male above 21 years of age In Marriage

b) Legally barred to take any dowry before, at the time or after the marriage.

c) Legally responsible to maintain his wife & children economically, pschycologically,socially, physically and emotionally.

d) Legally bound to provide protection to wife & children

e) Legally bound to provide residence & life style of his status to wife .

f) Legally barred to do any crulaity on wife or children

g) Leaglly barred of any domestic violence on wife.

h) Legally bound to make his wife happy biologically(sex).

i) Legally barred of any adultary inside or outside marriage.

j) Legally barred from marital rape.

k) Legally responsible to maintain his parents as well.

l) Legally responsible for any unantural death of his wife within 7 years of marriage. even after Divorce

m) Legally responsible to provide ailimony for easy life of his ex.till her remaining life or she remarries.

n) Legally responsible to provide maintenance to his children till they attain maturity age or in case of girl, her marriage.

WIFE (Legally in India)

and now let’s talk about Wife’s responsibilities or role ? Is it defined anywhere in any law or act ? NO The only thing defined (in nutshell) about wife is “Any girl/women above 18 years, legally married to a Man” that’s all. So WHO IS WIFE ?

Is this institution of marriage in India is any way FAIR to a HUSBAND ?

Don’t you agree that every indian matrimonial laws needs clear defination of the “Wife” i.e WHO IS WIFE ? WHAT IS THE ROLE of WIFE IN A MATRIMONY? and WHAT ARE THE RESPOSIBILITIES OR DUTIES OF WIFE ?

Isn’t it must, so that the abundance of rights bestowed to a WIFE in Indian Legal System, in the name of women Empowerment could be JUSTIFIED ANYHOW ?

An Appeal – NEED FOR NEW LAW TO CURB INIQUITY VIOLENCE IN INDIA

April 26, 2010

Analysis of political Wisdom of Indian Government

  • “to please a particular section of society for whatever may be the reasons (vote bank or power) in the name of Empowerment, the best policy is to give reservation or enact a new law to favor that section.”

This Wisdom of great rulers of world’s biggest democracy has encouraged me to write this post.

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What is INIQUITY ?

1. Gross immorality or injustice; wickedness.

2. A grossly immoral act; a sin.

3. lack of justice or righteousness; wickedness; injustice

4. a wicked act; sin

Ever since, the gender biased matrimonial laws are enforced in India( like 498a in 1983, Domestic violence in 2006, Section 125 Cr.PC, Child Custody etc. ) there is sharp rise in Iniquity on both genders in the country because these laws are grossly misused rather than their use.

However, on countering this question of gross misuse of these gender biased laws  the Government & feminists always gives very lethargic and irresponsible justification that every law can be misused so such laws cannot be scrapped or amended. But here they close the eyes to naked fact about these Laws that they are mostly MISUSED rather than their USE and no other law in Indian law books is such an example.

What feminists & government claims on spirit of enacting these laws?

These laws are made to (so called) protect or (pseudo) empower women (only wife) in the country and as is used in Judicial terms (by most of Judges in country while refering 125 or DV cases) in India “These are benevolent piece of legislation for empowering women”.

What the wide spread misuse of these Laws/Acts highlights?

Beside promoting gender inequality, breaking of Indian family structure and injustice to men in India, these laws are not even coming true to their spirit & need of their enforcement.

IMPACT on first rationale :-

By invoking these ill-intentional & clumsily framed Acts, one women(wife) is on the contrary, causing the INIQUITY to more than 2 women(mother & sisters of husband) in India so where is the Protection or Empowerment to women (in masses)?

IMPACT on second rationale:-

How a Law whose object & reason of enactment is based only on gender biased view of empowering the women in INDIA and whose enforcement is causing INIQUITY to more women than providing protection or empowerment to only one women(wife) can be called “a benevolent piece of legislation” ?

So, isn’t the framing of these laws itself is ironical and pathetic ?

 IMPACT on Greate Indian Society

Rapidly growing Men’s rights organizations in India like SIFF, AIMWA, GHRS etc. are always warning Government on implications of misuse of these gender biased laws on Indian society but the government under the impulse of it’s above explained wisdom is not giving any heed to their warnings and now slowly but steadily, the impact of these laws on Indian society is becoming more & more visible in day to day life.

a) The number of matrimonial murders and matrimonial violence are increasing day by day;

b) The rate of rising of divorce is too inclining ;

c) The abuse of elders or sr. citizens is always high ;

d) The institution of marriage is converting into a blackmailing & profit making business;

e) The family structure in India is diminishing gradually;

Besides this, see how Indian Society which was an example to world for peace, patience and ethical values is transforming into a society of criminals and Government has played a major role of catalyst in it by framing these gender biased laws to please a particular section of society for votes & power:

In old days, the marriage was sacred ritual to become a member of a “JOINT FAMILY” and the ethical value system was preserved.

Then came the these gender biased laws with hidden message that Small Family means Prosperity and slowly the fashion of “NUCLEAR FAMILY” prevailed and Values and ethics of marriage started diminishing.

And now, after adding more and more such new laws, India is slowly moving toward the society of “NO FAMILY” which you can very well be termed as JUNGAL RAJ.

What this transformation leaving behind is unheard voices of innocent persons and families, who were/are falsely implicated in these laws over the years in order to extort money or to give revengeful bashings. The Iniquity being faced by these persons/families caused/causing multi-faced damages to their sense of being alive by tarnishing their honor and dignity besides subjecting them to emotional, economical and social violence on false& malafied pretext.

NEED of Hour – Appeal

In order to ensure no further degradation of Indian society and to eradicate the ever increasing INIQUITY to masses, the Government needs to act fast and should scrap all these on sided laws but then, as I said, Government is a victim of it’s own Wisdom. So, I appeal to the Government to atleast frame & enforce an INIQUITY VIOLENCE LAW on the analogy of Domestic Violence Act which should cover all types of violence(as covered in DV Act) one suffers on account of INIQUITY caused to him or her irrespective of gender.

The Object & Reasons for enactment of this law will be a benevolent piece of legislation for Innocents who are falsely implicated in criminal or civil cases and for empowerement of indian family system. I assure you that this will certainly play a real benevolent purpose for the society as a whole.

Jai Hind!