With all matrimonial laws being gender biased in India, it is a need of hour, that a husband or would be husband should have a mechanism to know before hand his potential vulnerability of being attacked by a Legal terrorist. In this process below is a Indicator Proforma to assess the vulnerability of husband/would be husband in India.
Applies only to men
having either Indian Nationality or married to an Indian girl
Note down YOUR SCORE against each point & then TOTAL it, if Your Score is more than 35, you are in RED ZONE and your vulnerability increases with increase in this socre.
Indicators |
Total Marks(70) |
Your Score |
|
| 0 | You and your Nationality ? (Max 5) | ||
| Indian or NRI and married/marrying Indian girl | 5 | ||
| Not Indian but married/marrying Indian girl | 4 | ||
| Not Indian not married/marrying Indian girl | 0 | ||
| 1 | Are you married ? (Max 5) | ||
| Married | 5 | ||
| Would be a husband | 4 | ||
| Extra marital affair | 3 | ||
| Live-in relationship | 2 | ||
| Decided not to marry | 0 | ||
| 2. | About your in-laws/would be in-laws ? (Max 5) | ||
| FIL not alive | 5 | ||
| FIL alive but MIL has all the say in the family | 4 | ||
| Both alive but loves your wife/would be wife too much | 3 | ||
| Both alive but having no son (BIL) | 2 | ||
| 3. | Was it arrange marriage ? (Max 5) | ||
| Arrange marriage | 5 | ||
| Love cum arrange | 4 | ||
| Love marriage | 3 | ||
| 4. | About Marriage transaction (Max 5) | ||
| They offered dowry but you refused | 5 | ||
| You are against dowry | 4 | ||
| Neutral about dowry(may or may not give) | 3 | ||
| Dowry demand from your side | 2 | ||
| 5. | Have you inquired about the in-laws before marriage ? (Max 5) | ||
| No, not much | 5 | ||
| Yes, somewhat | 4 | ||
| Yes definitely | 3 | ||
| 6. | About your family ? (Max 5) | ||
| Only mother or both parents alive alive | 5 | ||
| Only Father is alive | 4 | ||
| No parents but sisters | 3 | ||
| No parents but brothers | 2 | ||
| 7. | Your financial health ? (Max 5) | ||
| High income | 5 | ||
| Moderate income | 4 | ||
| Middle income | 3 | ||
| Poor income | 2 | ||
| Very poor income | 1 | ||
| 8. | About your job ? (Max 5) | ||
| In top MNC or a Govt. job | 5 | ||
| Private job in middle level corporate | 4 | ||
| Private job in small level corporate | 3 | ||
| Part time or adhoc job | 2 | ||
| No job at all | 1 | ||
| 9. | Nature of your job ? (Max 5) | ||
| Technical & high level | 5 | ||
| Non-technical but high level | 4 | ||
| Technical but middle level | 3 | ||
| Non-Technical but middle level | 2 | ||
| Tech. or non tech. but low level | 1 | ||
| 10. | Your ethics & values ? (Max 5) | ||
| Respect elders and Women | 5 | ||
| Love family system of India | 4 | ||
| Love children | 3 | ||
| Believe in adultery | 2 | ||
| Don’t care | 1 | ||
| 11. | About your nature (Max 5) | ||
| Caring & loving | 5 | ||
| Just & truthful | 4 | ||
| Sensible & thoughtful | 3 | ||
| Jolly & enjoying | 2 | ||
| Care free & self centered | 1 | ||
| 12. | Your expectations from this marriage(Max 5) | ||
| Respect & peaceful life | 5 | ||
| Love & care for you & your family | 4 | ||
| Out of any completion or family pressure | 3 | ||
| Sex & enjoyment | 2 | ||
| Time pass | 1 | ||
| 13. | Your knowledge of matrimonial laws in INDIA(Max 5) | ||
| Very poor | 5 | ||
| Poor | 4 | ||
| Somewhat moderate | 3 | ||
| Good | 2 | ||
| Very Sound | 1 |
Hope ! you will be benefitted from this.
Thinking ? Gender 
Good awareness effort, pls keep up the good work
Right description… the more one believes in no-dowry, justice/equality for all, ethics/morality; the more susceptible they are to legal terrorism.